“Love does not delight in evil
but rejoices with the truth… Love never fails.”
~1 Corinthians 13: 6, 8
[Blogger’s Note: For
clarification purposes, I have liberally used the term, “Valentine’s Day,” but
have enclosed such term in quotation marks to indicate that I do not believe
nor do I subscribe to this celebration.]
Mid-afternoon of February 13th, I was walking
down a crowded shopping center with too many things running in my head. I kept
on seeing stalls with nicely-arranged flowers, elegant balloon arrangements, elaborate
bouquets, and lots and lots of heart-shaped and cupid cutouts. Then, I muttered
to myself, wondering, “Why on earth are they celebrating their supposed “Valentine’s
day” early? Would not these flowers wilt?”
It was only hours after, after I’ve
seen too many coffee-shops with overrated good-for-two promos and after my
elementary classmate greeted me an advanced “Happy Valentine’s Day” while I was
having some documents photocopied—it was only then that I realized that yes,
for the unbelievers, “Valentine’s Day” was the day after that.
I don’t know their reason for
celebrating or the history of it, though I must admit that before I became a
Christian, I used to buy the worldly and highly-commercialized idea of
Valentine’s Day. I used to be fascinated with chocolates, flowers, balloons,
and love songs. I used to get excited for February 14.
By God’s grace, however, as I
accepted Christ, I was able to see the non-necessity of celebrating this day of
love. I was fortunate to have attended a Bible-centered church and February 14
was usually spent evangelizing about the greatest love of all—the Father’s love
demonstrated through Jesus Christ (John 3:16), who despite our being sinners,
died for us and was resurrected to give us a new life (Romans 5:8). Of course,
this change of heart and mind came slowly and there were times that I had to
fight and struggle with my worldly and fleshly nature.
And so I am writing this entry to
celebrate this Perfect and Greatest Love and to remind myself that with Christ,
everyday is a day of His Perfect Love.
The aforequoted verse came out as I
was preparing my mother’s speech for the Hearts Day Celebration of the public
elementary schools which invited her to be a speaker. It was my desire that
through her speech, the love of God may also be preached though my mom has yet
to fully understand Jesus Christ.
I praise Jesus and I thank Him profusely that He has
appointed this task to me, that even if I cannot personally tell these
elementary kids about the Greatest Love this day, I can write about it. What’s
more, my mom can actually read what I’ve written and I know that the Holy
Spirit will continue to work in her heart to fully understand what it is to
accept Christ. I know, God is just amazing, right?
Anyway, back to my point. I’ve been reading this Biblical
definition of love for quite some time now, even way before I became a
Christian. Too many times I’ve pondered on this, studied this, quoted this and
memorized this passage about love.
But it was only today that 1 Corinthians 13:6 made a
great impact in my life. It was by His grace that this verse has been given new
meaning and life in my existence.
Love does not delight in evil. When Jesus Christ died for
me out of His Perfect Love for me, He has pulled me out from the pit of
darkness. I was living in sin but His grace was overflowing that He chose me,
despite the filth that I was in. He chose to save me and die for me because He
did not enjoy nor did He savor the fact that His beloved child was entangled in
a web of wickedness.
Jesus sacrificed for me out of His Great Love. He chose
to overlook all my sins and instead covered all of them with His own blood. He
didn’t ask me of my family or educational background; He did not ask me to explain
my sins; He did not criticize me. Instead, He looked at me with so much
compassion and love. And He has freely given Himself as the full payment and
ransom to the enemy in exchange for my life.
It is written in the present tense of the verb. God’s
love does not delight in evil. Now that I am His child through the death and
resurrection of Jesus Christ, He does not want me to continue gratifying my
sinful and horrible nature. He has to cleanse me and prune me so I will remain
in His love (John 15). He has to cut all of my connections with the darkness
because He does not bask in the darkness.
Instead, He savors the light and He is light Himself. All
my connections to darkness include my wounds of the past, my insecurities, my
inferiorities, my negative thoughts, my malicious feelings, my scandalous
emotions, my doubts, my envy, my jealousy, my lack of trust, my repulsive
nature—all these and more He wants to separate from me as far as the east is
from the west. He wants that He alone illuminates in me.
And now, He wants me to rejoice in the truth. Rejoice has
several listed synonyms, including celebrate and remember. At this point of my
life, Jesus is telling me to celebrate the forgiveness that He has given me,
the Perfect Love that He is continuing to share with me. He wants me to exult
and take pride in Him and Him alone. He wants me to accept His forgiveness with
so much openness and be happy in His love and in nothing else.
Jesus also wants me to remember the truth—that I am His
and He is mine; that He has called me by name (Isaiah 43:1), that He has erased
all of my past sins and have completely forgotten about all of them. He wants
me to live this truth that in Him, I have been given a new life, a life that
must be spent wholly and completely abiding in Him. He wants me to keep in mind
and learn by heart that because of His great love for me, He has defeated sin
and the enemy. In times of temptations and enemy attacks, He wants me to bring
to mind that I am fighting from His victory, that I will never lose because He
has won the battle already. The battle belongs to Him!
He wants me and He needs me to say to the enemy the
truth—that His sacrifice on the cross is more than enough, that the enemy is
powerless to bring back my old sins on my mind because Jesus has separated all
of them from me.
And at the end of it all, His love never fails. I may
fall and falter, I will sin again, I will feel bad and be bitter in some days
but because His love never fails, I am assured that I can fight all the
aforementioned battles with Him in me. The enemy may attack but the Lord Jesus
will always remain victorious. He will always be the victor, the winner.
How great is Jesus—my King and Savior! And as I finish
writing this blog entry, I am so full of His love and I can proudly say that I
am more and more in love with Him!
And I pray that as you read along, you have been blessed
by my realizations. And I pray, that you, too, will get to experience the
Greatest Love of all, the love of Jesus Christ!
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